Negotiation

The other day we were outside (it was 77 degrees), and Max announced he had to use the bathroom.

"Mommy, can I go pee in the grass?" he asked as he danced around holding a rake.

"No, baby, you need to go inside and use the bathroom."

"But before Daddy went to heaven, he said I could go pee in the grass."

And how should I answer that?

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Anonymous said…
Thank you, Susan, for the tales of the boys.

mh
11:32 AM
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